Team Travis Dinner - Giving back

THIS IS AN ONLINE EVENT ONLY!

Gift cards/cash: will be used at Costco to purchase food for the annual dinner. All denominations are appreciated.

Books: Books just need to be in my hands by 10/22/19 so that I can bring them to Rady's the following day.

We are collecting NEW books in memory of Travis on his 10th birthday (10/23/19). The books will be given to the guests at the Ronald McDonald House the evening of his annual birthday dinner. Additional books will either be donated to the house for give aways OR dropped off on the CICU/PICU floors.


Please ask around and repost this on your walls. Books and gift cards can be sent directly to our house (listed above). Or, contact Roger or myself to arrange a drop off.  E-mail is rogerd56@yahoo.com

****PLEASE NOTE: We are collecting NEW books only. The books are going into the rooms and families of fragile patients, so we have to have things germ free. Thanks!! *******


Thank you in advance!!!!!

If you would like to make a financial donation, you can do it via paypal link.  All money will go towards purchasing food and supplies for Dinner.

Donation to pay for food and supplies for Travis' Dinner

Celebrated Travis' 9th birthday by serving dinner at Ronald McDonald house. The amount of support from people that were there to serve and help, that donated books or donated costco cards is truly overwhelming. We can never thank people enough for the show of love for our family. #teamtravis

It's all About Awareness

I had the opportunity to share Travis' story to our boys and girls basketball team yesterday. Since it's been five years, some of these kids hadn't heard his story.  It's always hard to to share the details of his fight with hypoplastic left heart syndrome (HLHS).  It's important to us that we continue to bring awareness to congenital heart defects and honor Travis' short little life.

Travis taught us so many things:  resilience, joy, positivity, and how precious life is.  If I could just make one kid look at life a bit differently, then it was worth it.

His angelversary happens to be today, the night of our crosstown rival game at Mission Hills. Both San Marcos programs will be wearing special warm-up shirts to school and to the game.   

Travis loved going to basketball games with daddy.  One of the pictures below is the last game Travis attended, it was at Mission Hills.  I'm sure he'll be there with us tonight.

Happy 6th Birthday Travis

Travis Gary DiCarlo, first son of Roger and Nicole DiCarlo, was born at San Diego Kaiser Hospital, October 23, 2009 with a Congenital Heart Defect known as Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome, or HLHS. The short explanation is that Travis was born with only half of a heart. In order for him to live, a series of three operations were planned.


Due to an infection, Travis had to have an additional open heart surgery to insert pulmonary artery bands on October 29, 2009. He had his Norwood Surgery on November 21, 2009. He was sent home on December 14, 2009 from Rady's Children Hospital of San Diego after spending his first 52 nights of life in the hospital.

After being home for several months, Travis was due to for his next surgery in the plan, the Glenn procedure. But the life of a cardiac kid can change in an instant and life doesn't always go as planned. Due to the anatomy of his heart and some rhythm issues, Travis had what the surgeons called Norwood part 2. They replaced his Sano Shunt with a bigger one, enlarged his pulmonary arteries and installed a pacemaker. This surgery was performed on May 3, 2010. Travis went home on May 17th, 2010.


Around Travis' first birthday in October his cardiologist detected some narrowing in his pulmonary artery and ordered a heart cath. The heart cath showed extensive narrowing in his aorta and his pulmonary artery. On February 17, 2011 Travis had his 4th open heart surgery. He was doing well with recovery until he suddenly went into cardiac arrest on Friday (2/18). After two hours of CPR Travis was placed on ECMO (a heart/lung bypass). Although his heart did begin to beat again on its own, his brain was damaged during the whole ordeal and he lost all brain function. We had to say goodbye to our beautiful boy on Saturday, February 19th. We miss our boy terribly.....

Travis Tribute Video - Vimeo

Travis Tribute Video - Youtube

Travis 5th Birthday

Happy 5th Birthday

Travis Gary DiCarlo

Travis Gary DiCarlo, first son of Roger and Nicole DiCarlo, was born at San Diego Kaiser Hospital, October 23, 2009 with a Congenital Heart Defect known as Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome, or HLHS. The short explanation is that Travis was born with only half of a heart. In order for him to live, a series of three operations were planned.


Due to an infection, Travis had to have an additional open heart surgery to insert pulmonary artery bands on October 29, 2009. He had his Norwood Surgery on November 21, 2009. He was sent home on December 14, 2009 from Rady's Children Hospital of San Diego after spending his first 52 nights of life in the hospital.

After being home for several months, Travis was due to for his next surgery in the plan, the Glenn procedure. But the life of a cardiac kid can change in an instant and life doesn't always go as planned. Due to the anatomy of his heart and some rhythm issues, Travis had what the surgeons called Norwood part 2. They replaced his Sano Shunt with a bigger one, enlarged his pulmonary arteries and installed a pacemaker. This surgery was performed on May 3, 2010. Travis went home on May 17th, 2010.


Around Travis' first birthday in October his cardiologist detected some narrowing in his pulmonary artery and ordered a heart cath. The heart cath showed extensive narrowing in his aorta and his pulmonary artery. On February 17, 2011 Travis had his 4th open heart surgery. He was doing well with recovery until he suddenly went into cardiac arrest on Friday (2/18). After two hours of CPR Travis was placed on ECMO (a heart/lung bypass). Although his heart did begin to beat again on its own, his brain was damaged during the whole ordeal and he lost all brain function. We had to say goodbye to our beautiful boy on Saturday, February 19th. We miss our boy terribly.....

Travis Tribute Video - Vimeo

Travis Tribute Video - Youtube

REMEMBRANCE CHALLENGE: 3 for 3 RAK for Travis

For a few weeks I have been contemplating what I'd love to do to help honor and remember Travis' short life.  My mind kept coming back to the lessons he taught me…the most important is kindness (because you never know what people are dealing with/going through).  With that said, I figured the best way to get through this awful time would be to spread kindness.  Would you help?

Here is the challenge:
Between today and tomorrow (Feb 18-19th) think of 3 random acts of kindness
Spread and share them (via Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/128207457251243/ or e-mail)
Tag #RAKforTRAV, Roger and I  (if posting a photo add a short description)

The acts of kindness don't have to be big at all.  Here are some ideas:
Sincerely complement someone you don't know
Hold the door open
Buy someone a coffee
Pump someone's gas
Take your kids out for ice-cream
Make your spouse a card
Call someone and tell them you love them
Make cookies for neighbors
Tell someone why you are doing what you are doing….spread his name
And, here is a website with more ideas… http://www.randomactsofkindness.org/kindness-ideas


I'd love to see simple conscience acts of love spread in Travis' name.  Please join me in remembering our sweet, loving boy.  Can't way to see the LOVE!!!!!!

Happy 4th Birthday

Travis Gary DiCarlo

Travis Tribute Video

Travis Tribute Video - Vimeo
Travis Tribute Video - Youtube

Travis Gary DiCarlo, first son of Roger and Nicole DiCarlo, was born at San Diego Kaiser Hospital, October 23, 2009 with a Congenital Heart Defect known as Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome, or HLHS. The short explanation is that Travis was born with only half of a heart. In order for him to live, a series of three operations were planned.


Due to an infection, Travis had to have an additional open heart surgery to insert pulmonary artery bands on October 29, 2009. He had his Norwood Surgery on November 21, 2009. He was sent home on December 14, 2009 from Rady's Children Hospital of San Diego after spending his first 52 nights of life in the hospital.



After being home for several months, Travis was due to for his next surgery in the plan, the Glenn procedure. But the life of a cardiac kid can change in an instant and life doesn't always go as planned. Due to the anatomy of his heart and some rhythm issues, Travis had what the surgeons called Norwood part 2. They replaced his Sano Shunt with a bigger one, enlarged his pulmonary arteries and installed a pacemaker. This surgery was performed on May 3, 2010. Travis went home on May 17th, 2010.


Around Travis' first birthday in October his cardiologist detected some narrowing in his pulmonary artery and ordered a heart cath. The heart cath showed extensive narrowing in his aorta and his pulmonary artery. On February 17, 2011 Travis had his 4th open heart surgery. He was doing well with recovery until he suddenly went into cardiac arrest on Friday (2/18). After two hours of CPR Travis was placed on ECMO (a heart/lung bypass). Although his heart did begin to beat again on its own, his brain was damaged during the whole ordeal and he lost all brain function. We had to say goodbye to our beautiful boy on Saturday, February 19th. We miss our boy terribly.....